Where Are We Going??!!

We workaholics, busyaholics and rushaholics feel much more familiar with times when we hardly have a moment to breathe. We know how to function under pressure with crazy deadlines. Somehow, these are the times we shine! However, it's the times in-between and after a project is completed that can be scary. Not only because we equate working = money = survival, but more importantly it leaves us with the ultimate question. What is our purpose if we aren't given one? It isn't often that we have to deal with the question because we arrange our lives in such a way that we rarely have a breather. We tend to feel like we are on the right path when we have a job with a goal to achieve. Unfortunately, people define themselves by their work and most of the time it has nothing to do with who they really are. Now I know that's a deep question and it can be confronting but at some point we have to look deeper. For me, its been a life long quest. Now, as I have had amazing experiences and a baby (which really puts things in perspective) I just don't have time or energy for things I don't feel a connection with. A lot of us have the savior complex too but we CAN'T fix everything!!! We need breathers! Our bodies need to rest from the constant adrenaline push. Obviously, exercise is crucial but for me it's rarely a priority. There are always a ton of things I "have" to do let alone "want" to do. These days, I really look forward to the peace and calm. It's in the silence that self discovery and revelations happen for me. How about if we did this collectively? Consciously. We can all get healthier together and welcome these moments of wisdom to be our own spiritual teacher. Baby steps style;)

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Ebb & Flow

 It's been a challenging transition from the crazy pop star tour life to being a full time mommy maintaining a career. My sense of purpose and priorities have changed immensely. Major learning curves on this journey, which I must admit, wasn't comfortable at times. I'm learning it will always be something and the minute you think you have it down, I promise it'll switch up on you! Just like in motherhood, the game is ever-changing so we must go with the flow. Which leads me to where we are now... the age of TECHNOLOGY & SOCIAL MEDIA!! To think 10 years ago we were so NOT where we are today. Practically everyone has a Facebook account but if you want to be relevant, you better have an online presence! You don't exist if you're not on the internet!!  With all I do in a day from working, to being a mommy and making sure I handle my business, there isn't much time left to blog, tweet, Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn and Pinterest. Am I missing any new forum??? It also seems like every conversation always lands on the whole social media topic!  Seriously, it's time to get with the program!!!  Whether it's your business or you personally, get it online! Voila, DOLL2DAME was birthed for me! From being a Pussycat Doll for 13 years to my personal evolution and motherhood, I am more then ever ready to share my experiences, discoveries and hear other empowering stories! It's a new day and we are all on this ride together. There is no way around it and nobody can do it for you. So get to it! The time is now. Everyone and everything is going through a transition, so rebranding is more important than ever. Hey, I support you 100%!! I know you can do it. Go with the force;)

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